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Posted on February 23, 2011 at 3:01 PM
 
Most persons are of the traditional view that women should not make the first move in regards to asking a guy out. However I have seen many instances when this is done and the men are surprised that a woman actually made the first move. Times have changed and women are not afraid anymore to go towards what they want seen to the fact that men are short, some women have to be seeking more and also women have become more outspoken. However personally I would not make the first move even if i really like the guy as I believe that if he liked me that much he would make the first move. I know you might be saying the guy may be shy but I don't want no shy guy.
 
 
 
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43 Comments

Reply Trevoy
8:22 PM on February 23, 2011 
Sometimes a shy guy is better to have. He'll apprciate you more. Sometime guys who are outspoken and too confident will have alot of partners. If you're looking for love, i recomend a shy guy. I have to represent for the shy guys.
Reply Trevoy
8:24 PM on February 23, 2011 
Sometimes approaching a girl you like is not easy. Rejection is not fun
Reply A.Barrett
8:30 PM on February 23, 2011 
I agree with you. It is my personal beleif that the male should make the first step becuase as you mentioned if he does not make the first step he is considered as a whimp and we all know GIRS DON'T DIG THE SHY GUY THING>>> SO GUYS STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND BE A MAN.
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8:32 PM on February 23, 2011 
Trevoy says...
Sometimes a shy guy is better to have. He'll apprciate you more. Sometime guys who are outspoken and too confident will have alot of partners. If you're looking for love, i recomend a shy guy. I have to represent for the shy guys.

well im not going to make the first move..... its not other person's standards its actually mine. I do not believe that an outspoken guy alwys have alot of girls the shy ones are very sneaking as i would say snake under grass.
Reply Salomie
8:40 PM on February 23, 2011 
For me, it's nothing to walk up to a guy and say " I like you" or even "Do you have a minute." for a woman these lines are easy and a man will deffinaly stop to listen.
Reply Tash
8:42 PM on February 23, 2011 
I'm a liberated woman. I'm not gonna stand in a corner and hope to God that this guy will notice me. If i like you, trust me, you'll know. What's the worse thing that can happen? You might reject me, and if you do, you have no taste at all now do you? LOL. Just kidding. But I'd tell a guy that I like him. Aint nothing wrong with going after what you want.
Reply GRINI
8:45 PM on February 23, 2011 
foolishness!!!! if woman like a man, she fi ask! wat if the man reali likes the girl but just doesnt hav the money to go on a date? it is expected that once the man ask for a date, HE WILL BE PAYING.
PLUS, if u like a guy, y r u goin to avoid the chance of asking out this guy on a date. dont short-change youself because of old-school beliefs.

STAND UP tu the plate!!!!
Reply Natoya
9:01 PM on February 23, 2011 
I personally wont mke the 1st move and was taught by my mother not to..i believe if a guy likes me he is the man..be the man and step forward and tell me straight up..u should know hw to tke rejections as well if mi nuh like u and i get to realize tht these r the braver men...the ones u dnt like bt..smh a man should BE A MAN AND BE THE 1ST to move.
Reply P P
10:04 PM on February 23, 2011 
Well I was the one to approach my boyfriend. He was doing the same thing as I did and was just watching me from a distance. When I couldn't take it anymore I just went to him. He was a bit surprised that I approached him, but what baby girl wants baby girl gets. I am glad I did and I have no regretes. I trouble him that he would have been mising out on all this goodness if I didn't talk to him, he said he would eventually. I believe that it does not matter who makes the first move, just try to make it last.
Reply calvin
10:06 PM on February 23, 2011 
I believe a woman should let a guy know if she likes him, it has nothing to do with tradition. You may lose your one true love because you failed to say something!
Reply L. Ellis
10:11 PM on February 23, 2011 
I wouldn't make the first move because I am a shy person. I think the man should make the first move too, I don't want no shy guy either.
Reply Natalia
10:12 PM on February 23, 2011 
will look and discuss him with my frens but won't approach him..............I guess I am just not that interested then seeing that I won't approach them..........oh well!
Reply Camillia
10:12 PM on February 23, 2011 
I personally like a shy guy and feel really good when one approach me, and for that matter I wouldn't step to a guy.
Reply ockeem
10:12 PM on February 23, 2011 
well i always make the first move but i think if a girl likes me, by all means let me know. and girls have an habit where when they like u they act as if they dont which kinda make a guy shy....
Reply Antwone
10:16 PM on February 23, 2011 
I am shy at times for the right reasons sometimes there is this one girl that at first sight you can't stop looking that momment and going forward, and trust me you have a way of doing that. I personally only ever approached a girl once. And i've had many girlfrens.
Reply Trevoy
10:28 PM on February 23, 2011 
GOOD MEN ARE RUNNING OUT LADIES. IF YOU SEE ONE DONT WAIT FOR HIM TO APPROACH YOU. HE MIGHT NOT AND YOU WILL LOSE. MANY WOMEN MEET THERE HUSBANDS THAT WAY. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. THE AGGRESSIVE CALF SUCKS THE MOST MILK NOT THE HUMBLE ONE AS WE HAVE BEEN TOLD
Reply Abs
10:30 PM on February 23, 2011 
Any man mi want mi a go ask him..strait him mi think him mek fi mi mi a guh fi him...*wink*
Reply Abs
10:30 PM on February 23, 2011 
Any man mi want mi a go ask him..strait him mi think him mek fi mi mi a guh fi him...*wink*
Reply M. Walker
3:23 AM on February 24, 2011 
The Silence can speak for itself sometimes. You dont necessarily need to tell a person that you like them. This can come naturally in conversations and your reactions towards the person. So when its time to date you would least expect the person to reject the offer and it wouldn't matter who makes "the first move".
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